What’s it really like, being an Amici host?

Ian McLaughlan became a Standing Tall ‘Amici host’ earlier this year, renting out his spare room to Paul who had experienced homelessness but had recently started working at M. Lambe Construction.

Paul got a secure roof over his head and a steady job, whilst Ian got his rent paid every month by Standing Tall and a new housemate – one more dependable that the Airbnb guests Ian would usually rent his spare room to.

What made you want to help someone experiencing homelessness?

I don’t think anyone should have to experience homelessness – we have enough resources, housing, and space in this country to make it history if there was the political will. However, in the absence of that then it’s important to do what you can as an individual.

I was constantly wondering what I could do, beyond giving people some food and a smile every now and then. And interestingly, I always thought to myself – if people who had a spare room (or house!) used it to tackle homelessness, it would be gone in weeks.

What interested you about becoming an Amici host with Standing Tall?

The opportunity came along at just the right moment to bring all those things I previously mentioned together – the motivation, the room, and the support to do it in a safe and structured way.

Have you ever done anything like this before?

Not really. I’ve never done anything to do with homelessness before. However, I have been a Superhost on Airbnb and so I was really used to welcoming random people into my home and making them feel welcome, secure, and comfortable.

I’d often had as many as 10 strangers staying with me a month with Airbnb so that was ideal preparation. So, it didn’t seem too much of a stretch to have someone here for longer and use the skills and space I had to tackle a societal problem too, rather than make money for myself and a big tech company.

‘It’s a great opportunity to make a massive difference to someone who will really value and appreciate your support, your kindness and your home’, Ian, Amici host.

How different is it to having guests as an Airbnb?

Very different. I feel that I am much more in a supportive role – rather than the owner of a bed and breakfast – and doing some good. I also wanted to do something more positive with my space. Especially as Covid had made temporary guests either impossible or much less desirable. It’s actually much nicer having a regular companion at home.

Does it bring security knowing the rent is being paid by Standing Tall?

It wasn’t something I worried about but I’m sure for some people it would be a big thing. It’s certainly a comfort.

You work to build business across Greater Birmingham, how important is a steady job?

Having productive, meaningful employment is one of the best indicators of positive mental and physical health there is. I don’t think it can be underestimated as a foundation for independence, a feeling of purpose and usefulness and, of course taking control of your own development and future. I know that personally and professionally.

Should employers be nervous about taking someone on through Standing Tall?

I don’t see Paul at work, but I can tell you I’m not even out of bed when he leaves the house for his job. He’s dedicated and seems to really enjoy what he’s doing. I can see it gives him a spark. When he does talk about work, it’s always positive. He definitely enjoys it and gets a lot out of it. It seems like the company really value him too.

Would you welcome another housemate through the Amici host initiative?

Yes, absolutely. It’s been a really positive experience.

If you would like more information on becoming an Amici host, visit www.standingtall.org.uk/become-an-amici